The Weekly Encourager – January 1, 2016 – Break Forth!

“Shout joyfully to the Lord, all the earth; break forth and sing for joy and sing praises.” - Psalm 98:4

I confess I found it hard to get in the Christmas spirit this year: 2015 was tough for me and for others I care about. Yet, because of the coming of Jesus, “the Dayspring from on high,” there is hope for a better 2016. Even if the new year ends up being “worse” than the previous one, I have confidence that God is working all to His glory, to conform us to the image of His Son. This God who came as a Child desires a meaningful personal connection with each one of us. He will use whatever means necessary to draw us closer to Himself, to remind us of our utter dependence upon His grace, to cure us of the disease of sin, to bless us with eternal life. What means is He using in your life?

If we believe in Jesus, no matter what our current struggle, the dawning of a new year is a time of rejoicing. It's an annual opportunity to celebrate the new age of Emmanuel, God with us, Light in the darkness. “Good Christian men, rejoice! He hath op'ed the heavenly door, and man is blessed evermore. Christ was born for this!”

“Sing, O ye heavens; for the Lord hath done it: shout, ye lower parts of the earth: break forth into singing, ye mountains, O forest, and every tree therein: for the Lord hath redeemed Jacob, and glorified Himself in Israel.” - Isaiah 44:23

“Break forth into joy, sing together, ye waste places of Jerusalem: for the Lord hath comforted His people, He hath redeemed Jerusalem.” - Isaiah 52:9

Happy New Year!
j

Break forth, O beauteous heavenly light, 
and usher in the morning. 
O shepherds, shudder not with fright, 
but hear the angel's warning: 
this child, now weak in infancy, 
our confidence and joy shall be, 
the power of Satan breaking, 
our peace eternal making. 

Break forth, O beauteous heavenly light, 
to herald our salvation. 
He stoops to earth, the God of might, 
our hope and expectation. 
He comes in human flesh to dwell, 
our God with us, Immanuel, 
the night of darkness ending, 
our fallen race befriending. 

- Johann von Rist, 1641

The Weekly Encourager – December 25, 2015 – Christmas Prayer

The Weekly Encourager – December 25, 2015 – Christmas Prayer

This year three families of friends enjoyed Christmas dinner together. Before we sat down to eat, our host read aloud this prayer from “The Valley of Vision,” a fine collection of Puritan prayers.

“The Gift of Gifts”

What shall I render to You for the gift of gifts;
Your own dear Son, begotten not created,
My Redeemer, my proxy, my surety, my substitute;
Self-emptying, incomprehensible;
His infinity of love beyond the heart's grasp.

Herein is wonder of wonders:
He came below to raise me above,
Was born like me that I might become like Him.

Herein is love:
When I cannot rise to Him, He draws near on wings of grace,
To raise me to Himself.

Herein is power:
When Deity and humanity were infinitely apart
He united them in indissoluble unity,
The uncreated and the created.

Herein is wisdom:
When I was undone, with no will to return to Him,
And no intellect to devise recovery,
He came, God-incarnate, to save me
To the uttermost,
As man to die my death,
To shed satisfying blood on my behalf,
To work out a perfect righteousness for me.

O God, take me in spirit to the watchful shepherds,
And enlarge my mind;
Let me hear good tidings of great joy,
And hearing, let me believe, rejoice, praise, adore,
My conscience bathed in an ocean of repose,
My eyes uplifted to a reconciled Father;

Place me with ox, donkey, camel, goat,
To look with them upon my Redeemer's face,
And in Him account myself delivered from sin;
Let me with Simeon clasp the new-born child to my heart,
Embrace Him with undying faith,
Exulting that He is mine and I am His.

In Him you have given me so much
That heaven can give no more.

- Anon. in The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers and Devotions, edited by Arthur Bennett

There are many good gifts to thank God for, but the first and best Gift of Christmas is Christ. Merry Christmas!
j

The Weekly Encourager – December 15, 2015 – Christmas Comfort

There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of Jesse,
and a branch from his roots shall bear fruit.
And the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him,
the Spirit of wisdom and understanding,
the Spirit of counsel and might,
the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.
And his delight shall be in the fear of the Lord.

You will say in that day:
'I will give thanks to you, O Lord,
for though you were angry with me,
your anger turned away, that you might comfort me.

'Behold, God is my salvation;
I will trust and will not be afraid;
for the Lord God is my strength and my song,
and he has become my salvation.'

With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation. And you will say in that day:
'Give thanks to the Lord,
call upon his name,
make known his deeds among the peoples,
proclaim that his name is exalted.
Sind praises to the Lord, for he has done gloriously;
let this be made known in all the earth.
Shout, and sing for joy, O inhabitant of Zion,
for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel.'

Isaiah 11:1-3; 12:1-6

Too many funerals, so much sorrow. This is my only comfort: in Christmas we see Isaiah's prophecy fulfilled. God has reached down to His people to make a way through the wilderness of pain. This is the promise: in the vast dry desert of grief, there will always be an oasis. Jesus says, Come, fill your cup with living water from the wells of salvation. Let the cup overflow! Don't lose sight of the destination: a home with Jesus, and no more tears. May all our mourning be turned to dancing, and all our heartache to praise.

God is faithful,
j

The Weekly Encourager – November 24, 2015 – My Pre-Thanksgiving Prayer

Dear Lord, as we approach Thanksgiving, we thank You for all that You are and all that You have done, are doing, and will do for us. Thank you especially for the free gift of salvation, which cost Jesus so dearly. Help us to value You as our chief blessing, never taking for granted the Cross which enabled our justification, sanctification, and eventual glorification. Thank You for Your goodness, mercy and forgiveness!

Heavenly Father, as many of us make preparations for the traditional Thanksgiving feast, make us mindful of the struggles and sorrows of others as we rejoice. If we have been blessed with family and friends, however distant or dysfunctional, help us to get along with them, showing respect to each one, especially those with different opinions, choices, or lifestyles. May potential conflicts be mitigated by Your peaceful presence. May we be instruments of Your peace, knowing when to speak and when to be silent, and when to change the subject. May we show the forgiving love of Jesus Christ to all those we meet during this season. Heal the sick in body or mind. Save the lost; call back the wandering. Be with those who suffer alone, and show us where You are calling us to befriend someone who is hurting.

Good Shepherd, if we have suffered the loss of loved ones, be our comfort and strength. May we share with others whatever good we experienced through those relationships. If they were believers, we rejoice that their day of feasting in Heaven will far exceed our own Thanksgiving down here. Thank You Jesus for being the friend that sticks closer than a brother. Thank You that You will never leave us.

Creator of all, if we have the senses of sight, hearing, taste, smell, and touch, we have seen Your majesty, wisdom, power, and beauty in the supreme glory of Your creation. Make us thankful for each sunset we can see, each song we can hear, each person we can touch. Remind us to get outside each day and pause to appreciate what You have made.

Great Provider, if we have been given homes, food, clothing, cars, computers, books, and other material blessings, may we never forget the Giver, from whom every good gift proceeds. At the holidays, we get so busy with extra cleaning, shopping, cooking, planning, preparing, decorating, writing, wrapping, and all the other chores we do, that we sometimes complain about the very gifts You have given us to enrich our lives and enable these celebrations. Remind us that things don't have to be perfect to be special. Remind us that You see and reward our efforts, even when people don't have a clue. Thank You that our privileged position is based on faith in Christ, not on works, that no man should boast. Thank You that we are loved always, no matter what. Teach us to take time to reflect; give us quiet moments of rest when we need them most.

Teacher, may we be good stewards of our time, energy, talents, money, and possessions. Teach us the true value and purpose of each. Help us to remember the lessons You have taught us in times of trial. Make our hearts and hands generous to those in need. Teach us to give thanks every day of our lives.

Amen.

“Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our Thanksgiving.” - W. T. Purkiser

God is faithful and good,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – November 17, 2015 – Peace

The Mur pour la Paix (Wall for Peace) in Paris has the word “peace” etched in 32 world languages on glass walls. When visiting Paris in 2013, Dave and I were walking from the Eiffel Tower to the War College when we stumbled upon it. I was struck by its prime location between these symbols of war and peace. To me, the artist's use of glass as a building material was genius. My first thought was the fragility of peace; indeed, some have thrown rocks at the glass and shattered it since the monument went up in 2000. Also, glass is both reflective and clear, depending on the angle. The perspective of peace allows you to see through the glass to the city beyond. From another angle, you see your own face reflected in the glass panels with “peace” across your features. Now, with the terrorist attacks on Paris this past weekend, it has new meaning. I am praying for Paris and for peace all over the world.

Someone asked, How could an all-powerful God let this tragedy happen? The answer goes back to Genesis. God gave free will to all people, so we all sin. Some cheat on their taxes or their spouse, some set off bombs to kill innocent people. God says there will be a day of reckoning, when all evil will be punished. Meanwhile, we must do all we can to resist evil, pray for the lost and the hurting, and show the love of Jesus Christ to all people. This is a great time to share the gospel. As friends and coworkers ask difficult questions, be ready “in season and out” with a Biblical perspective on world events. “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” - 2 Peter 3:9 ESV God often uses times of crisis to bring lost souls to Himself, so we should have faith that God is at work even now. Do not be afraid and do not despair!

What is a valid Christian response to attacks by Muslim extremists on Western (historically Christian) society? The conflict between Christians and Muslims is as old as Isaac and Ishmael. YHWH promised that Abraham's seed would inherit His covenant. Ishmael, born of Abraham's lack of faith, became the father of the Arab nations (most of whom are Muslim now), while Isaac, son of Sarah, became the father of the 12 tribes of Israel. Jesus was a Jew who brought Gentiles into a new covenant relationship with YHWH. As Christians, naturally we disagree with the religious beliefs of Islam.

I am not going to make a political statement here. This blog is not about politics, but about faith, and encouraging the saints. However, when I see things on Facebook like the “church sign” supposedly in “Dearborn, Michigan” with its photoshopped inflammatory message of Muslim hate against our nation, I am disturbed. I do not think Jesus Christ would have us manufacture propaganda to rile up our fellow citizens. Nor do I think He would have us be foolish conduits of false accusations without thought. People beware, not everything you see in print is true! Check sources for actual facts before spreading rumors, whether about Muslims or Christians. The truth, if we can get to it, will speak for itself. The truth is that clear glass wall of peace.

“Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me.” Christians must be the instigators of peace. First, our hearts are at peace because of faith in Christ. Then, from that vantage point (we are terrorist sinners forgiven by a just yet merciful God), we are to speak the truth in love, not hate. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves, not hate them. We are to pray for our enemies, that they might become our friends. We must do good to them. But when does turning the other cheek become turning a blind eye? I am not an expert on political policy, but I do know this: Christians must treat all people with dignity and respect, for we are all made in God's image. It doesn't matter if we agree with them or not, we must love them! I am dismayed when I hear the hateful way some Christians are speaking of Muslims today.

“Love is patient and kind….love rejoices with the truth...love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures.” - 1 Corinthians 13:7 NLT

Peace between men or nations on this earth is as fragile as a wall of glass. When a big rock hits it, words are meaningless: any words on the glass fall to the ground in pieces. But there is One whose words stand forever. There is One whose victory is sure. Jesus said, “I am leaving you with a gift – peace of mind and heart! And the peace I give isn't fragile like the peace the world gives. So don't be troubled or afraid.” - John 14:27 TLB

Paul's prayer is also my own, “May the Lord of peace himself give you his peace no matter what happens. The Lord be with you all.” - 2 Thessalonians 3:16 TLB

Peace be with you,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – November 11, 2015 – Honor Veterans

Once a year, on Veterans Day, we have a golden opportunity to honor those who fought for our freedom in the face of fear, and their families who stayed behind, offering strong silent support. Please, let us not see this day as just a free day off from work, but as a day to celebrate all the freedoms we enjoy in this great nation. Because of the sacrifices of our military, most of our citizens have no concept of what it would be like to be a refugee from a war-ravaged country such as Syria, trying desperately to find a new country that would accept us, feed us, protect us, and allow us to begin a new life far from the only home we had ever known. Let us take time to thank veterans who endured unspeakable violence in our place, and those at home who lived with constant worry that their loved ones might never return. Let us thank God for men and women of true courage.

“Pay to all what is owed to them: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed, respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed.” - Romans 13:7

“It is easy to take liberty for granted, when you have never had it taken from you.” - Vice President Dick Cheney

“It doesn't take a hero to order men into battle. It takes a hero to be one of those men who goes into battle.” - General Norman Swartzkopf

“Courage is almost a contradiction in terms. It means a strong desire to live taking the form of readiness to die.” - G.K. Chesterton

“Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are often stiffened.” - Billy Graham

“The sacrifices made by veterans and their willingness to fight in defense of our nation merit our deep respect and praise – and the best in benefits and medical care.” - Sue Kelly, former Member, U.S. House of Representatives

“Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act.” - Proverbs 3:27

Happy Veterans Day,
j

The Weekly Encourager – October 28, 2015 – Mourning the Loss of Who We Were

The Bible says that our identity is in Christ, but what happens when we lose a vital element of who we once were? This topic has come up several times recently. Sometimes the cause of the loss is aging, sometimes it's disease, sometimes it's an accident, but it's always God's will, and that's the hard part.

My friends P. and S., though once lively and active, now live in chronic pain. P's horrible back pain began in her 20s; 30 years later no one has found a cure. S. had a rare disease which affected her ability to stand and walk. After multiple operations on hips and legs over the years, she lives in a wheelchair most of the time because of ongoing severe pain. P. started a ministry to at-risk youth in her community. S. became a great Bible teacher. Both have persevered and developed even sweeter temperaments. Their suffering has been used to spread the gospel.

N., a freshman in college, had a serious accident which damaged 25% of her brain. Formerly a top student who loved school, she now struggles to read and comprehend the most basic assignments. Always a hard worker, she's trying to deal with this life-changing disability and somehow get a degree, but she's angry at God.

E., although still young, had just been promoted to a position of great responsibility in our national government when she started getting severe headaches and other strange symptoms. After a medically challenging year which included brain surgery, she had to resign her position as a senior executive and request disability payments. She's still highly intelligent, but the promising career she loved is gone. She now has “good days and bad days” as symptoms continue. Her cheerful attitude is an encouragement to others, yet I know she suffers.

Our friend asked for prayer as he shared his deepest fear of not being able to play his guitar any more due to illness. He expressed the anguish so well. “It's as if who I am is being stripped away. Since childhood, playing guitar has always been at the root of my self image, of who I perceive myself to be….If I can't express my spirit through my music, I lose the very deepest part of me….It's scary, especially since my most profound experiences with Christ came when my guitar was in my hand....I know who I am in Christ. I just don't know who I am without my guitar. I never even thought of having to ask that question.”

The loss of being able to make music has affected several of our talented friends. H. was a fine professional clarinet player when she had a neck injury which affected her shoulder and arm; she never recovered her former ability. She had to watch while the friend she recommended for a top clarinet position advanced beyond her. Eventually she had to find another career. Another friend who sang professionally with me in the US Navy Band had a lovely alto voice. She was a soloist with the famous Washington Bach Consort, among other groups; she could sing anything from baroque to folk, and do it well. Thyroid cancer ended her career as a musician. She told me that now she can barely sing the congregational hymns in church on Sunday morning.

My husband, a piano player and composer, is losing all feeling in his fingers due to diabetes, and must hurry to record his music before it's too late. For myself it was trauma which took away my singing voice. Music has always been a huge part of my identity: I wrote my first song at age four. Now, instead of being a professional soloist up front, I am reduced to sitting in back of church, where I can serve God by helping new folks learn the songs. I am thankful that I can still sing in a community chorus, but I don't even bother auditioning for solos. After music and childrearing, I decided to get more involved with quilting, but now I have this eye condition which means I can't sew as I once did. Life goes on.

Oh, Lord, what encouragement can I offer to these friends, to myself? Loss of physical and/or mental function will happen to all of us sooner or later, unless we die first! We live in a world where grief is unavoidable. Many have asked, “Why Lord? Why me? Why now?” and the worst, “What's left?”

Here's what I know: Every good gift comes from God, and all our gifts are to be used for the Kingdom of Christ. If God takes away something we love, He wants to replace it with Himself. If God takes away something that's as much a part of our identity as our own name, He wants to give us a new name. He's asking: I gave you this gift, and you praised Me with it; will you still praise Me when this gift is gone? Who are you, really?

I can't speak for my friends, but personally I wonder, Lord, did I put too much faith in the gift, and not enough in the Giver? Did I enjoy the status and respect and opportunities and experiences and income that came to me because of Your gift? Did I ever take it for granted, presuming that I was worthy to receive your blessing, or that my own hard work brought it about? Is this perhaps an answer to my prayer for humility? (As I've said before, Never pray for humility, because that's one prayer God always answers!)

The same Scriptures seem to come to mind, over and over: “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” “Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You I desire nothing on earth.” “Abide in Me, for apart from Me you can do nothing.” “He must increase, but I must decrease.” “Though He slay me, I will yet praise Him.” All I have is Christ. Christ is all I need. It seems that all of my life is about understanding that one concept: it's not about me, but about Him. He calls me to a deeper dependence which will yield a truer testimony. The Lord is calling me to put my faith in Him alone, to find my identity in Him alone, to boast in Him alone, to be content in Him alone. It's so hard, but I am starting to get a clue. Just as I am saved not by my works, but by His grace, I rejoice that I am now a child of God! When all else fails, when I lose my voice, my eyesight, my mind, and everything else, I will still be a daughter of the King. And that is enough.

Thanks be to God!
J

Copyright 2015 by Janet A. Marney
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The Weekly Encourager – October 21, 2015 – Back to the Future

Today is the day pictured in the famous 1985 film “Back to the Future” as being way far ahead in the future. October 21, 2015 was the day Marty McFly traveled back to, in order to save his future children. It's a great opportunity for journalists to reflect on how far we've come. The same thing happened when we reached the year 1984, the far-future date of George Orwell's classic dystopian novel “1984” written in 1949. Many of us look back fondly when these milestones are reached; it's fun to compare past writers' visions with what has actually happened in real time. In fact, fiction writers can spur on scientific and technological advances. One example is that when personal cell phones were first made available to the masses, people wanted flip-open devices like they saw on the TV series “Star Trek.” The physical design for phones was actually altered to meet the demands of the public.

While some look back with nostalgia, others look forward with anticipation to a time of scientific ascension when society will be practically perfect. Man is evolving, they say, to be better and better. In the future, wars and disease and poverty and racism will be eliminated. Freed from such ills, human society will be devoted to exploring new worlds and gaining new knowledge, perhaps in cooperation with inhabitants of distant planets. But the Bible says things will only get worse here with great natural catastrophes and multiplying wars, especially in the Mid-East. Into a world of growing darkness, Christ will burst forth like the sun, with healing in His wings. It is only in Heaven that our dreams of peace and plenty will come true.

Christians look forward to the Day of Christ's return. Some people try to predict the exact day based on their interpretation of Biblical prophecy. They want to get into a fabulous time machine vehicle (preferably a smokin' DeLorean) and manually set the date of their next trip. However, the Bible clearly states that no one knows the hour of His coming. It will be as unexpected as a thief in the night. I believe that wanting to know what God has not chosen to reveal is a form of pride. Adam and Eve wanted to know what God had not revealed to them, and that desire led to sin. Like them, we want to have special inside knowledge so that we can control our own destiny and be like God. We don't want to have to depend upon the Word of the Lord for our peace.

So how are we to look back, and how are we to look forward? Simply put, no matter what's happening in the world today, we look back upon the Creation of the world by God the Eternal Father, the Cross where Jesus the Sacrificial Son died, the Gift of the Holy Spirit to live within us, and forward to the Crown of Glory we will receive one day in the presence of the Lord. Technology cannot save us; in fact, it can lead to greater problems (from the Tower of Babel to the atom bomb). Our hope rests in Jesus Christ, who once for all time forgave our sins, past, present, and future. If we trust in Him for salvation, we will be ready for His glorious return, whether it's in 2015 or many years in the future.

Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. The trip to Heaven is the greatest time-travel adventure we can experience, for it will take us to a land without time, Infinity. We're ready! Thanks be to God!

Yours in Jesus, the greatest time-traveller of all time,
j

The Weekly Encourager – October 9, 2015 – “Against Hope Believing in Hope”

This morning I awoke to the news of yet another school shooting, this time at Northern Arizona University. The CBS report mentioned it first in “Today's Eye Opener: your world in 90 seconds,” along with tales of trouble in Congress, severe flooding in South Carolina, Russia's bombs landing in Iran, and a bridge collapse in New Zealand. Closer to home, this week my ophthalmologist told me that my ongoing eye pain may be due to a rare chronic inflammatory disease which has no reliable cure. Last night I started a new medication (my sixth) which is effective in only 30% of cases.

My friends, we live in a fallen world, filled with the effects of sin. People who think society is only improving as we “evolve” into better human beings are delusional! Look around: young people who should be filled with energy, excitement, and anticipation as they train for their future careers are killing one another and themselves. Evidently, this world isn't giving them hope. Oh Lord, save our children!

William Wilberforce was well aware of how horrible this world can be. Wilberforce (1759-1833) was an English Member of Parliament who became a Christian, then a leader in a 20-year struggle to abolish slavery in England. He must have been discouraged at times, yet he hoped in the Lord. His prayer is just as relevant today:

“O Lord, reassure me with Your quickening Spirit; without You I can do nothing. Mortify in me all ambition, vanity, vainglory, worldliness, pride, selfishness, and resistance from God, and fill me with love, peace, and all the fruits of the Spirit. O Lord, I know not what I am, but to You I flee for refuge. I would surrender myself to You, trusting Your precious promises and against hope believing in hope. You are the same yesterday, today, and forever; and therefore, waiting on the Lord, I trust that I shall at length renew my strength.” - William Wilberforce

We need only observe each day's “eye opener” to know that we can't look to this world for hope. Wilberforce's only hope, and ours, is the Lord. “The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth. He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He will also hear their cry and will save them.” - Psalm 145:18-19 Whether we're being shot down by a gunman targeting Christians, or shot down by Satan's evil darts, we can have confidence in Christ, and His promise of justice and redemption and joy to all who believe in Him. “The Lord keeps all who love Him; but all the wicked, He will destroy. My mouth will speak the praise of the Lord; and all flesh will bless His holy name forever and ever.” - Psalm 145:20-21 God has a plan, and He's working it. Oh Lord, renew our hope.

God is faithful, so keep on praying!
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

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The Weekly Encourager – September 30, 2015 – A Marriage of Opposites

“There are many ways in which God works in our lives, but it is the same God who does the work in and through all of us who are his. The Holy Spirit displays God's power through each of us as a means of helping the entire church.” - 1 Corinthians 12:6-7 TLB

I guess it's no secret that my husband and I are opposites; last week a younger woman asked me how we kept a long marriage while having such different personalities. Her question was about marriage, but it applies equally to other relationships, including family members, close friends, and colleagues at work. The Bible says it applies to churches, too.

Trust. I have found that the first key to a successful marriage of opposites is to trust the God who created you both. The people in my life are not there by chance. God has placed each one in my orbit for a purpose. That difficult child or demeaning boss? He's there especially for me, to challenge me to lean on God more and more each day. God's work is to conform believers to the image of Jesus Christ, and His favorite tools are people. I have found that God has given me a husband as well as dear friends who are very different in temperament. For example, some of the things that annoy me the most are inefficiency, disorganization, unpreparedness, and lateness. Yet some of my favorite people have these traits in abundance. Why does the Lord keep putting opposites in my life? Obviously, I need a lot of work in those areas! I need to learn to be gracious, forgiving, understanding, and patient with the “shortcomings” of others, just as my poor friends and family have to put up with my (far worse) faults of impatience, a critical spirit, careless speech, and pride. After all, which is more important to God: being on time, or being kind? Hmmm...

Know. My next word of advice is to know yourself and know the other person. When Dave and I were going through pre-marital counseling, Pastor Steve Smallman gave us each two copies of a personality test. We were to take the test once for ourself, then take it again for the other person, answering in the way we believed the other person would answer. What a wise man Pastor Steve was! Once our results were plotted, the graphs were overlaid on top of each other. In our case, the test revealed that Dave and I were exact opposites on just about all of the nine continuums, but when we answered for the other person, we were right on! This exercise showed that, although we were only 22 years old, we knew each other pretty well. How well do you really know the people in your life?

Respect and Appreciate. Now we get to the third task, which is dependent upon the first two. Looking at our test results, Pastor Steve told us that our very different personalities and skills were complementary. Each partner could supply what was lacking in the other. We could help one another and serve God better together than apart. Dave and I proved the adage that opposites attract. The first time we met, we were drawn to each other as supplying something vital that we needed. Yes, opposites attract, but over the years, I learned that opposites argue! Here's where the hard work comes in. When I am feeling frustrated, it takes discipline to remember the initial attraction that drew me in, to remind myself of his (many) good traits. Along with this, I need to be humble about my own condition. Whatever is bothering me about my husband, I remind myself that something equally bad is bothering him about me! As I've said before, I'm no princess to live with!

The way of death is to forget the good and remember the bad, but that is not God's way. The Bible shows us that there are many parts to the Body, each with its own particular gifts. We can't all be eyes or mouths or feet. We must respect the gifts and calling of others. For a full life in Christ, each is just as valuable as the other, although they may be very different. God calls me to recognize what is good, appreciate it, thank God for it, and thank the other person for it. Adam saw Eve and was grateful to God for her. He was filled with joy. Vive la différence! That is to be my attitude toward my spouse. The world, the flesh, and the devil say Criticism and Complaints. The Holy Spirit says Complements and Compliments.

Pray and Grow. This is an ongoing process. I must continue to trust in God and look to Him for help constantly. I continue to learn about the other person through ongoing communication and observation. I'm open to what God might be teaching me through this. I learn what I can from my husband's or friend's strengths, and I try to become more like him in those areas. We're meant to rub off on each other, so that both benefit.

Above all, I need to ask the Lord for a healthy dose of humility. I dare not make an idol of my own personality type, or the gifts God has given me. As the Spirit convicts me of my own failings, I continue to ask for forgiveness. I try to be thankful: memorize Philippians 4:8 and ask God for the ability to do it! Believers in a marriage of opposites have the opportunity and obligation to demonstrate supernatural unity in Christ. God is faithful, so keep on praying!

My friend asked for some book suggestions, so below are a few that have helped me. I'd love to hear your recommendations, too. Please post them in the Comments section, so that all may benefit.

Have a thankful day,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

“Discover Your God-Given Gifts” by Don Fortune and Katie Fortune will help you find your strengths and build upon them, including career suggestions and relationship pointers. Very enlightening Biblical approach. See also “Discover Your Children's Gifts” by the same authors.

“The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts” by Gary D. Chapman has been on best-seller lists for years, for good reason. Find out which expression of love means the most to your spouse, friend, or family member.

“Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs” by Emerson Eggerichs is excellent for dating and marriage.

“You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation” by Deborah Tannen reveals important male-female differences in how we communicate. A classic, not just for marriages.

“The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict” by Ken Sande is the best book I've read on resolving conflict with anyone, opposite or not.

The Weekly Encourager – September 25, 2015 – Comprehensive Care

Have you looked at your insurance policy lately? How comprehensive is the care you've been promised in case of a medical, home, auto, or financial emergency? When an accident happens, who do you call?  You may find that some things you thought would be covered are not. Read the fine print! By contrast, here's the Lord's insurance plan.

Psalm 121 The Lord My Keeper

I lift up my eyes to the hills.
From where does my help come?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
He will not let your foot be moved;
He who keeps you will not slumber.
Behold, He who keeps Israel
Will neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord is your keeper;
The Lord is your shield on your right hand.
The sun shall not strike you by day,
Nor the moon by night.
The Lord will keep you from all evil;
He will keep your life.
The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in
From this time forth and forevermore.

A recent look at this short psalm revealed that the Hebrew “keep” is used six times in eight verses. It can also be translated preserve, protect, guard, or watch, as a watchman of sheep or cattle, or to put a protective hedge around something. I was struck by how comprehensive the Lord's care is over us. “Day and night” and the mention of both “sun” and “moon” cover any time of day; indeed, the Lord who “never sleeps” is available 24/7 to deal with emergencies. “All evil” covers any bad thing that could happen from external sources; “your soul [life]” includes the inner part of us, which is invisible and most valuable. “Going out and coming in” could refer to our movement about the day's tasks, travel, beginnings and endings, or major decisions such as which job to accept or where to live. “From this time forth and forever” covers all time until the end of time. God's loving care is all-encompassing.

What a contrast to man-made insurance policies! We can be confident that this Old Testament policy covers us, too, because Jesus prayed on our behalf, “Holy Father, keep them in Thy name, the name which Thou hast given Me...I was keeping them in Thy name...I guarded them...that they many have my joy made full in themselves. Keep them from the evil one.” - John 17:11-15 Jesus prays for us still, from His seat next to the Father. In effect, our insurance gets automatic updates.

Paul prays for the saints, “May the God of peace sanctify you...may your spirit, soul, and body be preserved [kept] complete without blame at the coming of Jesus Christ.” - I Thessalonians 5:23 This is echoed in Jude 24-25, “To Him who is able to keep you from stumbling, and to make you stand in the presence of His glory blameless with great joy, be glory.” Jesus is the Good Shepherd who keeps us safe. As His personally-selected flock of sheep, we are entitled to His full protection. In fact, He wrote the policy; read the fine print! This policy is permanent and can never be revoked. Even better, the cost of this insurance is already paid in full. So we can rejoice! The same Good Shepherd who will guide us blameless into Eternity will lovingly care for our every need here on earth.

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. Trust in the Lord, and cast all your burdens on Him, for He cares for you. Lord, may we have great joy in Your promises, and peace in Your comprehensive care. May we review the policy often.

God is faithful,
j

The Weekly Encourager – September 15, 2015 – All I Have Is Christ

“Whom have I in heaven but Thee? And besides Thee, I desire nothing on earth. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” - Psalm 73:25-26 NASB

All I Have Is Christ

VERSE 1
I once was lost in darkest night
Yet thought I knew the way
The sin that promised joy and life
Had led me to the grave
I had no hope that You would own
A rebel to Your will
And if You had not loved me first
I would refuse You still

VERSE 2
But as I ran my hell-bound race
Indifferent to the cost
You looked upon my helpless state
And led me to the cross
And I beheld God’s love displayed
You suffered in my place
You bore the wrath reserved for me
Now all I know is grace

CHORUS
Hallelujah! All I have is Christ
Hallelujah! Jesus is my life

VERSE 3
Now, Lord, I would be Yours alone
And live so all might see
The strength to follow Your commands
Could never come from me
Oh Father, use my ransomed life
In any way You choose
And let my song forever be
My only boast is You

© 2008 Sovereign Grace Praise (BMI) By Jordan Kauflin
To hear this song, visit https://www.youtube.com/watch?

The Weekly Encourager – August 31, 2015 – What I Know About Heaven

Grief is hard. I really miss loved ones who are gone. Still, I have a peace about those who knew Jesus. God promises that those who believe in Jesus will have everlasting life, free of pain and sorrow. I grieve the most over those who did not appear to be saved. It's so sad to think they might spend eternity in anguish, yet there is still cause for a ray of hope. Since we know that nothing is impossible with God (repeated eight times in Scripture), He may have had mercy on even the worst rebels in their final seconds of life.

Today I heard the song “Knowing What I Know About Heaven,” by Sarah Darling, for the first time. While it's not great literature, it expresses some good thoughts. What I know about heaven depends on what I know about God. It is His love which makes possible such abundant blessings for those who have died in Christ, and such peace for those who loved them here. The more we know about God, the more His Spirit comforts us in time of loss. May we know Him more and trust Him more each day.

Knowing What I Know About Heaven

[Verse 1]
I bet the trumpets played and the angels sang
Every sweet refrain of amazing grace
And that heaven's hands opened up the gate
And the children danced when they saw your face
As happy as they were to see you coming
I was just as sad to have to watch you go, oh but

[Chorus]
Knowing what I know about heaven
Believing that you're all the way home
Knowing that you're somewhere better
Is all I need to let you go
I could hope that I could pray you back
But why on earth would I do that
When you're somewhere life and love never ends
Knowing what I know about heaven

[Verse 2]
Where every single voice makes a joyful noise
How sweet the sound when the saints rejoice
To every broken heart and every wounded soul
New life begins on streets of gold
With every tear that's raining here from my eyes
I know the sun is shining where you are, oh

[Chorus]
Knowing what I know about heaven
Believing that you're all the way home
Knowing that you're somewhere better
Is all I need to let you go
I could hope that I could pray you back
But why on earth would I do that
When you're somewhere life and love never ends
Knowing what I know about heaven

[Coda]
I could hope that I could pray you back
But why on earth would I do that
When you're somewhere life and love never ends, oh
Knowing what I know about heaven

God is faithful,
j

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yduN-IC7bOA

The Weekly Encourager – August 24, 2015 – Losing Your Hair

My friend is going through chemotherapy and losing her hair. This is understandably upsetting for someone who has had a full head of beautiful thick wavy hair for as long as I've known her. It's always been one of her most attractive feminine features. She wrote, “I rubbed my head when I woke up and something hit my face and I realized my hand was full of hair and it was dropping back onto my face (and was on my pillow).” The next day, “a huge amount came out in the shower, and I emerged looking akin to the Phantom after being unmasked….I had expected losing my hair to be the hardest thing so far and it indeed was.” Then she says it took her a couple of days to let her boyfriend see her without a head covering, but when she finally braved it, “he was so loving and held me when the tears began again, treating me as if I were as attractive as ever – such a dear man. I am so blessed.”

My heart goes out to this dear lady, and I wrote back to her, “You ARE as attractive as ever! The great God who created you has numbered every hair on your head (and on your pillow). He has made you forgiven, accepted, redeemed, and beautiful in Christ Jesus. Yes, it is painful, but the temporary loss of physical beauty is a sign of His deepest love. It will serve to draw you closer to Him, as you bask in the reflected light of His eternal beauty with the true and lasting beauty of a soul who is loved by God. You have always radiated with an inner light; now the Lord will bring that to the fore, unhindered by the distraction of physical appearance. He wants His light to shine out from you as an undeniable witness to those He has placed in your path. I am praying not just for you, but for those around you who do not yet know Him. May the God of all comfort be very near to you in this difficult trial as you cry out to Him. May others see in you the love, joy, and peace of a life in Christ, and long to know Him.”

God says, "I will be glorified." May others see our good works and glorify our Father who is in Heaven. Sometimes, if we're injured, ill, or disabled in some way, the “good work” we do is simply the work of faith. We can't run around and do the traditional active “good works” to help our family, friends, church, and community as we might have done before. Instead, we have more time to read God's word and meditate upon His truth. Our “good work” is to use this time wisely in increased devotion and intercessory prayer, accompanied by a gracious spirit which is yielded to the all-wise will of a loving Heavenly Father. Our sweet spirit shining through suffering will display God's grace to everyone around us.

Now, let me say, I myself have been laid up several times with serious injuries requiring bed-rest, and I did NOT display this sweet gracious attitude which brought honor to Christ! Far from it, as my family and friends will testify. This is my goal, however. Maybe God will keep allowing these injuries until I learn the lesson! God says, I WILL be glorified. He will do whatever is necessary in each of our lives to glorify His name.

Whether we're losing our looks due to cancer or just getting old, it's an opportunity to trust not in the flesh but in the Spirit. Pain and loss can make us weaker or stronger. It all depends on our attitude. My friend with cancer is showing a brave heart that trusts in the Lord and thanks Him for blessings. “I am so blessed.” She's already endured many hard things (not just losing her hair) and her journey is just beginning! Her courage is inspiring. I have no doubt that God loves her so much that He has chosen her to endure this suffering for His name's sake. In all of it, God will be glorified.

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

“Then Moses said to Aaron, 'This is what the LORD has said: “Among those who are near me I will be sanctified, and before all the people I will be glorified.”' And Aaron held his peace.” Leviticus 10:3

“And he said to me, 'You are my servant, Israel, in whom I will be glorified.'” Isaiah 49:3

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” Matthew 5:16

“The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.” John 17:22-23

“In order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.” 1 Peter 4:11

The Weekly Encourager – August 19, 2015 – The Ideal Body

I've been thinking about the ideal body. You could say that the Body is on my Mind! In Sunday's sermon, Pastor Paul Wolfe used Psalm 139 “I am fearfully and wonderfully made” as a reminder that the people of God are receivers before we can be givers. Our bodies are a gift from the Lord, to be used wisely. For an art quilt, I needed to draw a man's body, then translate that into fabric. Researching how to draw a man's body yielded some interesting results. There were several sites showing how to divide the figure into 8 equal parts, with the head being 1/8 of the total height and all else proceeding from that unit of measure. One resource, however, compared the correct proportions for four men: normal, idealistic, fashion, and heroic (larger than life!).

Next I studied a photo essay of top athletes from around the world, all dressed alike in the same black swimsuits, showing the very wide range of body types that are ideal for particular sports. The photographer shows the tall and thin bodies right next to the short and thick ones. Remember, “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” You say, I'm not cut out for sports? Well, that's just wrong. God didn't design a single body type to sit around all day. Every physique you can imagine has at least one sport or activity for which it is ideally suited!  For best results, don't try to make a runner out of a wrestler, or a high jumper out of a jockey. Study your (or your child's) body type to get clues about which sport might be best, and find a way to make that happen.

Yesterday I read a blog post about encouraging young people to exercise. In “Ten Things I Want My Daughter to Know About Working Out,” Author Brynn Harrington tells why we shouldn't try to motivate young girls to exercise by saying how good they need to look in a certain dress. Exercise should be associated with joy and achievement, rather than chore and punishment. We motivate our children to embrace lifelong fitness by showing that physical strength has its own rewards. We feel good when we move our bodies, and fitness opens many doors that would be closed to us otherwise.

A friend and I were talking about middle and high school gym class, and how horrible it was back in the day. I agreed with him that if those gym classes had been my only exposure to physical exercise, I might hate it. How well I remember the shame of being the last chosen for any team, the slowest runner on the track, the weakest girl on pull-ups! Not to mention the embarrassment of being ridiculed by the instructor in class and the other girls in the locker room! Thank God I had ballet all through school. Here was a way to build my strength and agility with a real honest sweat-producing workout which made me feel wonderful! It didn't hurt my looks either, but that was not my main motivation for doing it. It was about finding a happy place where I could be good at something physical. I believe there's a happy place for each of us; we just have to find it.

Keeping fit can be fun, and we need to show our students how. Children usually follow our example, not our advice. Are we showing them how satisfying it is to keep our own bodies strong? We want them to be empowered, not coward. I recently read this striking thought: “Be who you needed when you were younger.” I think it applies here. What do kids really need from us now? They need to know that growing and improving and accomplishing is good stewardship of what God has given us, whether it's our hearts, minds, or bodies.

What is the ideal body? The ideal body is one that's being used to grow in grace, according to God's design and giving God the glory.

God is faithful,
j

Sermon: “David's Prayer, Part 2: David Knows the People of God” by Paul Wolfe, New Hope Presbyterian Church, 8/16/15, http://newhopefairfax.org/resources/sermons-to-hear
I learned about Howard Schatz’s Athlete series (and his book by that name) from a post on http://www.boredpanda.com/athlete-body-types-comparison-howard-schatz/
“Ten Things I Want My Daughter to Know About Working Out,” by Brynn Harrington. http://wellfesto.com/2013/11/19/10-things-i-want-my-daughter-to-know-about-working-out/
Quotation: “Be who you needed when you were younger.” by Glennon Doyle Melton. http://momastery.com/momasterys-book-picks/

The Weekly Encourager – August 14, 2015 – Slow Down!

I had gum surgery this week, and it's making me slow down. Here's an example: About a half hour ago, I prepared a beautiful plate of three veggies and salmon for my lunch, and I'm still working on that one plate of food 30 minutes later. It takes more time now to figure out what I can eat, more time to chop it all up into small pieces, more time to eat it, and more time to clean my mouth afterwards. The interesting thing is, eating slowly means I eat less, yet I don't feel any less satisfied. In fact, I feel better for having put more thought into meals. I'm also not snacking, because it's too much trouble.

The fact is that for years I've been eating too fast, out of habit. The Lord has given me this unique opportunity to examine what and how I am eating, so that I can make some changes. My challenge will be to maintain this slower speed once my mouth is completely healed.

Looking at this plate of diced food, I thought of other things I consume, such as books, movies, radio, internet media. It's pretty easy to get into a habit of going to the same web sites all the time, because they're relaxing, easy to digest, or humorous. Same thing with lightweight reading material or TV shows. There's nothing wrong with it, as long as I'm thoughtful about it. But I have found that my mind can atrophy if I give it nothing dense to chew on. Over time, I can slip into a habit of seeking more and more entertainment as a panacea for whatever ails me, to the point of neglecting serious study of God's word and other godly and/or thought-provoking books.

Recovering from surgery has meant a new opportunity to read things I hadn't made time for in a while. I slowed down and looked at what I was doing with my “free” time, rather than falling into the same mindless habits. This week, I've read some interesting books and articles which have added insight to my perspective and enriched my life. I got back into Calvin's Institutes and spent a lot less time on Pinterest. It's been refreshing. My challenge will be to maintain this slower, more thoughtful rate of consumption once I resume my normal work schedule.

Are we on a junk food diet, whether of food or other consumables? Do we snack or savor? What would it take for us to slow down and consider what we're doing, maybe make some changes? “Open thy mouth, and I will fill it with good things,” says the Lord. - Psalm 81:10 I had a dentist who hung this verse on the ceiling, so patients could read it while they reclined! It's a great concept: when we're empty, go to the Lord first to be filled. Let Him delight us with that which truly satisfies. Let the Lord teach us about fulfillment, in a way that the world never could. Jesus said, “I came that they might have life, and have it abundantly.” - John 10:10

Learning in the slow lane…
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – August 5, 2015 – Welcome Sign

A surprising sign was posted near the doors of a church we visited.

“Welcome. Behind these doors you'll discover people who struggle with lying, cheating, envy, greed, sexual impurity, gossiping, back biting, bickering, anger, swaggering, bullying, cruelty, meanness, arrogance, stupidity, impatience, hate, judgment, pride, and even more. We've compiled this long and sorry record as sinners and proved that we are utterly incapable of living the glorious lives that God wills for us.

“We know we need Christ. If you have discovered that you are like us, broken with contrite hearts desiring forgiveness from sin, people longing for a clean start, then

“Please Come In. For here you will find rest for your weary souls and peace with God. And not only for us, but for everyone who believes in the work of Jesus. We discovered out of sheer generosity God put us in right standing with Himself. A pure gift. He got us out of the mess we're in and restored us to where He always wanted us to be.”

I was struck by the humility of this message. I was challenged to consider how the welcome at my church compares. Do we give off a vibe that we're pretty good people now that we're saved, or are we willing to admit that we continue to fail? Do we convey an attitude of pride in our particular church or denomination, believing that we have a superior understanding of God's truth, or do we acknowledge that we're all still learning, and that some other group may have much to offer us?

“This is what the Lord says: 'Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,' declares the Lord.” - Jeremiah 9:23-24 ESV

What about my personal relationships? Do I give the impression that I am right and others are wrong? Do I pass judgement on others' faith or lack of faith? How about their actions? Am I afraid that showing my weaknesses might be “a bad witness” to the gospel of Jesus Christ? This church sign suggests that showing our real struggles with sin may actually aid the gospel! Christ sought the lost and welcomed sinners. His church is not for the strong, but for the weak who are held up by God's power alone. We are saved by grace, not by works, lest any man should boast. Pride offends God—beware of spiritual pride!

“You are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, 'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.'” - 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 ESV

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

[Welcome sign seen at Sierra Community Church, 1165 Sierra Blvd., South Lake Tahoe, CA 96150]

The Weekly Encourager – July 27, 2015 – Authority

On our first full day of vacation far from home I had a medical emergency. I thank God that Dave had the presence of mind to take me to an urgent care facility, since I was in too much pain to think straight. He was leading me around because I could not open my eyes. It was frightening and distressing to be in pain and to lose my eyesight. Providentially, urgent care is close to our hotel and they were great. Later, I called my brother to tell him that I might not make it to the Daniels Reunion next week, where I was signed up to organize a cookout for 30 people. He urged me to call my regular ophthalmologist back home. I reached the on-call physician, who gave specific instructions and then called in a prescription to a pharmacy here. That is the wonder of modern technology and God's providence.

Later that evening, when I could see again, I read the story of the Centurion in the book of Matthew, and the Spirit spoke to me about Authority. “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof, but only say the word, and my servant will be healed.” - Matthew 8:8. Our Lord has ALL authority in heaven and on earth, and nothing is impossible with Him. Therefore if we experience pain or difficulty, it is all in His plan. That gave me great comfort and I was able to fall asleep. Thanks be to God for His mercy and grace! My eye condition has improved with treatment, and I've been sleeping well each night here in the hotel, a huge answer to prayer.

What did I learn from this? The surprise situation caught me unprepared. You would think that a “mature” Christian would call upon the Lord right away, but I honestly didn't think of it. I had been pretty stressed for weeks, quite low on sleep, and struggling with depression. My eyes had been on the things of this world, rather than on the Lord. Sometimes I get so worked up over everything that has to be done, especially just before a trip. I try to accomplish everything perfectly on my own, as if I could provide for all my own needs, as if I were the Alpha and Omega of my own destiny. Romans tells us that this is righteousness based on works. This is idolatry.

On Sunday, we visited a church here on vacation, and the sermon was on Psalm 46. The Holy Spirit spoke directly to me, reinforcing this lesson. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble! Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea!” I can tell you that losing my eyesight felt like the earth giving way, and I was afraid. The Lord says, “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” Christ has been given all authority. He can make things happen with a word. Therefore He is the One in whom we must place our trust. No matter what happens, He will be exalted. We need not fear. “The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.” - Psalm 46:11

I can look back on this week and realize that God had to literally take away my eyesight in order to get my eyes off of myself! The Israelites in the wilderness had to wander blindly for 40 years, but I only had to be led around for an hour. I had forgotten about the Lord, but God in His goodness provided others to care for me when I could not care for myself. Husband, hotel employee, nurse, brother, and physician were my manna from Heaven. The Lord never stopped loving me. The Lord never stopped protecting me. He truly showed Himself to be my Good Shepherd who is not willing that even one silly lamb be lost in the desert. He reminded me of my utter dependence upon His grace. He could take away my vision, my health, my family, my friends, my mental faculties, my home, or any other good gift at any time, with a single word. In Him we live and move and have our being. It is He that made us, not we ourselves. He is Authority personified. Yet He is mercy, too. I am not worthy to have Him come under my roof, yet He has come into my heart! Thank You, Lord! My heart is filled with praise.

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney.

The Weekly Encourager – June 26, 2015 – Can't Sleep? Try Calvin.

When I can't sleep, I pick up the Bible or some other godly book that engages my mind. Oh, did you think my title meant that Calvin will put you to sleep? Gotcha! I have found that often, when I can't sleep, the problem is that my mind is going round and round on something, and I can't get off the topic. Forcing myself to read something that involves actual effort to concentrate (especially at 3 AM) redirects my thoughts. This year a group of us are reading Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin, so that's become my go-to book for sleepless nights.

Last night I was reading the section on the Ten Commandments. Since I've been studying idolatry for a Bible Study group, I was particularly interested to read what Calvin says about the first commandment. “I am Yahweh your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.” Exodus 20:1-3 Here are some nuggets of encouragement I found.

On the “I am” statement, Calvin writes, “It would be monstrous for us to want to withdraw from his rule when we cannot exist apart from him. God first shows himself to be the one who has the right to command and to whom obedience is due....then he attracts [us] with sweetness...in this promise: 'I will be their God, and they shall be my people.' It is as if he had spoken as follows: 'I have chosen you as my people, not only to benefit you in the present life, but also to bestow upon you the blessedness of the life to come.'” What balm to my soul! Then Calvin discusses the “brought you out of Egypt” phrase, in which God was “reminding Israel of his recent benefit, a benefit of such marvelous and everlastingly memorable greatness as also to remain in force for posterity. Moreover...the Lord means that they have been freed from miserable bondage.” This dramatic deliverance was not just for the nation of Israel, but a type of every Christian's spiritual deliverance “from the devil's deadly power.” Every time we remember this magnificent gift of freedom, it should move us powerfully against “the crime of ingratitude.”

Now to the “no strange gods” command. What exactly does that mean? Calvin says the purpose of this commandment is to establish the Lord's pre-eminence and complete authority. “Therefore, in forbidding us to have strange gods, he means that we are not to transfer to another what belongs to him. Even though there are innumerable things that we owe to God, yet they may be conveniently grouped in four headings: (1) adoration, (2) trust, (3) invocation, (4) thanksgiving. (1) 'Adoration' I call the veneration and worship that each of us, in submitting to his greatness, renders to him….[We] submit our consciences to his law. (2) 'Trust' is the assurance of reposing in him that arises from the recognition of his attributes, when – attributing to him all wisdom, righteousness, might, truth, and goodness – we judge that we are blessed only by communion with him. (3) 'Invocation' is that habit of our mind, whenever necessity presses us, of resorting to his faithfulness and help as our only support. (4) 'Thanksgiving' is that gratitude with which we ascribe praise to him for all good things.”

Calvin says that, in order to keep this commandment, “true religion must come first, to direct our minds to the living God. Thus, steeped in the knowledge of him, they [our minds] may aspire to contemplate, fear, and worship, his majesty; to participate in his blessings; to seek his help at all times; to recognize, and by praises to celebrate, the greatness of his works – as the only goal of all the activities of this life.” What rich treasure upon which to meditate. Let this become our prayer: Lord, direct our minds to You. May we be steeped in the knowledge of You so that we may adore You, trust You, turn to You in trouble, and thank You always.

I thank the Lord for giving me songs in the night. Sing His praises!

God is faithful,
j

These quotations are taken from Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin, edited by John T. McNeill, translated by Ford Lewis Battles, Book Two, Chapter 8, pp. 379-383.

The Weekly Encourager – June 17, 2015 – Scammed!

I've been scammed! The Bible says, “if you think you stand, take heed lest you fall,” and I fell. For decades, I have prided myself on my excellent consumer skills, always researching items and shopping carefully in order to be the best steward of our family's funds. People call me for advice on how and where to shop, but this time I was tired and distracted and in the middle of a project when a man came offering to trim our trees.

Normally I just say, “not interested” and shut the door, but this time I was outside anyway chopping bushes, so I asked for an estimate and listened to his pitch. His wife wrote down the estimate; then he said if I paid a deposit up front, they could come back that afternoon and get the work done in the same day. I felt so comfortable with them and so tempted by the idea of crossing that chore off my list! I stupidly wrote him a check, without checking on anything. Off he went. At the appointed time, when he didn't return, I called him and he said he was running late due to another job. The phone calls and excuses continued. I went online to try to check him out, and I couldn't find him anywhere. At dinner time, I contacted my bank to stop the check, but I was too late – that check had been cashed minutes after I wrote it!

You know me: everything is a spiritual lesson. I've been preparing to lead a Bible study on Idolatry, and my preparations have included the topic of Satan's ways and wiles. After realizing that I had been scammed, my first thought was, this is exactly how Satan works! He comes when I'm not looking for him, when my body is tired and my mind is occupied. He comes with no listing, no references, no proof of insurance, and a lot of smooth talk. He looks nice, and he sounds trustworthy. It's just so easy to give in. But beware! The devil asks for a deposit before he delivers the goods.

Satan uses our idols to trip us up. For example, I value efficiency and productivity way too much, so the devil planted the thought that I could get two jobs done at once (the tree work could get done while I did other jobs, a win-win). Also, I have a lot of pride in my ability to read people to determine who is telling the truth. On top of that, I'm quite proud that I never get sucked in to scams. I'm impatient with friends who fall for these lies. Cue the eye-rolls. Oops! Satan already holds the gun. Having idols in our lives is like handing him the ammunition! That ammo is custom-made to fit into the gun aimed directly at our hearts!

God says that when we sin, we exchange the truth for a lie. Every time we sin, we've been scammed. The world, the flesh, and the devil can trick us if we're not on our guard and wearing full armor. Sometimes there is great regret for our sin, so we try to go back and fix things, but it's too late. Like the check I wrote to the tree guy, it's already been deposited in someone else's account, and I can never get it back. Satan has no intention of keeping his promises.

Thanks be to God that He offers salvation by grace! Were I to try to get to heaven on my own ability, I would be lost forever. Even in an area in which I have “very little” temptation, an area that I am “good” in, with “skills taught from childhood and honed over many years,” I can still fail! I don't want to even mention the areas in which I know I am weak and how I fail there!

In the case of the tree guy, I have reported him to the local police. They may or may not be able to help get my money back; they made no promises. I need to remember that Satan provides no refunds if we want out, but God provides redemption, restoration, and peace if we turn to Him. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

God alone makes promises that He can keep. Like sheep, we need to listen for the voice of the Shepherd. We may lose a battle, but Christ has won the war. The devil is defeated. He will be destroyed. Check references! Know the Bible, especially as it relates to our particular areas of struggle. If God doesn't talk to us, someone else will. Encourage other members of the flock by referring to what the Lord has done for you. Be a character reference for the Lord by testifying of His honesty, fairness, goodness, and power to get the job done. “He is able, doubt no more.” Instead of being scammed, let's be sanctified.

God is faithful and true,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

Update on 2015-06-17 18:02 by Janet A. Marney

Update on the tree guy: I just got a refund! I give thanks to God, not only for the money, but for the spiritual lesson. God is so good!